..:: kecil hati ::..

sometimes kan 
kite tak perasan pun
what we have said
what we have done 
what we have thought 
might hurt some one 

sometimes jugak kan
other people pun macam kita 
what they had said
what they had done
what they had thought 
might hurt us 
without even realizing

most of the times
we always wanted to do our best
of not getting hurt and forgive
of that person unintentional
words, acts and thoughts

most of the times 
we always want everybody 
understand your feeling
saying the right words to you
treating you well

but 
what we always have in mind
is too perfect for the real world 
as human is never perfect
perfect tu kan sifat Allah SWT

what we can do 
bila kita terkecil hati 
with that person unintentional
words, acts and thoughts

is
just, let go of it 
as it never happened at all

or
rationale yourself 
that person is not at their best state of mind
when it happened

or 
put a distance 
for a while 
so that the person know
it should not be that way 

or 
if you still cannot take it
confront that person
tell him/her what hurts you
do not accuse, but ask 
do not be angry, but chill
do not judge, but get explanation 

it is not easy 
but 
please try your best 

"sometimes it last in love,
sometimes it hurts instead.."